OPRAH’S April BIG QUESTION

“What Would You Stand Up For?”

“IT’S YOUR TIME TO RISE – AND BE THE LIGHT YOU WANT TO SEE”

Front cover of The Oprah Magazine April 2018 Edition

KAITLIN ANN TREPANIER

Human/Animal Rights Activist Social Scientist Founder Entrepreneur Author Artist

Connecting The Dots With The Respect Principle

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HUMANS JUST 0.01% of All life But Have Destroyed 83% of Wild Mammals … Study

Groundbreaking assessment of all life on Earth reveals humanity’s surprisingly tiny part in it as well as our disproportionate impact

https://www.theguardian.com/environment/2018/may/21/human-race-just-001-of-all-life-but-has-destroyed-over-80-of-wild-mammals-study

Damian Carrington Environment editor for The Guardian International Edition

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KAITLIN ANN TREPANIER

Human/Animal Rights Activist Social Scientist Founder Entrepreneur Author Artist

Connecting The Dots With The Respect Principle

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FATHERS and MOTHERS … Recognize everyone gets hurts as children and teens, so healing our hurts before becoming parents is the best way to prevent our children from becoming mean, abusive, and/or violent

Because of circumstances I did not know how to handle as a young teen, I dropped out of school to marry at sixteen someone who would save me. No children involved.

The violence started verbally, then grew increasingly physical to the point of a brutal, violent rape … all this suffered at the hands of a a handsome, charming, yet jealous and insecure man, who was made sterile by his father’s physical attack on him at fourteen when he stepped in to stop the assault on his mother after his dad pushed her down the stairs.

Years later, after a second non-physically abusive marriage and subsequent divorce, I briefly dated a fellow also very broken by his childhood experiences, but when his circumstances became dire I offered to share an apartment so we could both get on our feet financially. But, as time rolled on, verbal abuse became the norm, until one day he threw something and almost hit my little cat. I realized it was time to get out. He was also dating a married woman and I was also concerned about becoming collateral damage if an angry husband showed up.

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Learning I was attracting such partners because of my own brokenness and my resulting willingness to accept such treatment came from understanding I needed to learn how to respect myself enough to not just walk away when in danger, but to heed the signs before getting involved with other low “Respect Level” people. Not that I won’t help them, but I no longer need to be in a personal or professional relationship with them.

I also know too, we can’t help people who don’t want help … all we can do is model what self-respect and respect for others looks like, and if necessary, contact the people who can help in ways we cannot.

Please share my story because it may just be what someone needs to read for them to be safe.

PLEASE NOTE: If you are in an abusive relationship of any kind, do not act defiant. Be smart. Be respectful of your own life and those in your care by seeking help in your community from people who can be trusted.

Thank you.

Sincerely,

KAITLIN ANN TREPANIER

Human/Animal Rights Activist Social Scientist Founder Entrepreneur Author Artist

Connecting The Dots With The Respect Principle

©All Rights Reserved 2015

 

 

OUR INFLUENCE and IMPACT

If we all lived in isolation, the impact of others on us would be non-existent, but we don’t, so we have to factor in the influence and impact we have on other people … and then choose whether we will be positive, nurturing, and encouraging or negative, controlling, and discouraging.
May 24, 2018

KAITLIN ANN TREPANIER

Human/Animal Rights Activist Social Scientist Founder Entrepreneur Author Artist

Connecting The Dots With The Respect Principle

©All Rights Reserved 2015

EDITOR/PUBLISHER … Are You Searching For A Line of Books Written For Diverse Target Audiences?

The dozen written books-to-date share an idea in different ways from adult non-fiction in story format, self-help, manifesto, and thesis formats to an adult short fiction, plus a series of children’s books. In the works, is a poetry collection and the play for schools that will be filmed and sold as a DVD too.

Initially, I chose to publish the books myself through my company, Connecting The Dots With The Respect Principle, but I have reconsidered my choice in order to free more of my time to write, which is one of the two things I love most; the other is helping people, which I use my books to do.

As a result, there are many more books waiting inside to be brought to life on paper and in other ways, including a TED Talk I am currently preparing for in order to be ready when the time arrives.

You are invited to check out my list on this blog; however, please visit the ebook distributor and retailer, www.smashwords.com, to read my interview, see my current books offered in ebook format, read the samples, or the books themselves.

While visiting my blog, discover I am not just an author, but an entrepreneur driven by the passion to create a positive global change, transforming respect from a discretionary value to the global principle … because I believe every life matters … and we can make our world a better place for everyone with just one shift in consciousness and choice.

If this idea does not excite you, then I thank you for your curiosity and wish you well.

But if you are thinking and feeling WOW! I get this and see the opportunity to do something great while making good money to do even more great things, then I expect to hear from you.

Send me a message through here, LinkedIn or Facebook, and let’s connect!

Sincerely and Respectfully,

Kaitlin Ann Trepanier

May 22, 2018

KAITLIN ANN TREPANIER

Human/Animal Rights Activist Social Scientist Founder Entrepreneur Author Artist

Connecting The Dots With The Respect Principle

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Why “CONNECTING THE DOTS WITH THE RESPECT PRINCIPLE” Can Change the Mindsets That Break People and Invoke Them to Harm Themselves or Others

My condolences to all 😥

BUT PLEASE NOTE … These school shootings are preventable … not by tighter security or even gun control, but by a mindset shift.

Just blaming those who harm is fruitless because those who harm are severely broken … so what is needed is a new way of thinking about and treating each other … in our homes, communities, and schools.

My anger is generated by my frustration level with people unwilling to listen and change the mindsets that break people to the point they lash out with violence, not just against themselves, but against anyone they can reach. If you really want to curtail this insanity, help me implement the changes in schools and communities with the “Connecting The Dots With The Respect Principle” books, products, and services that have the power to change what is so severely broken.

I don’t allow myself to hate anymore, but to forgive and pray for those inflicting harm.

Instead, I use my anger as fuel to engage to create the needed positive changes … because moments of outrage followed by apathy or a sense of helplessness aren’t cutting it … as the violent deaths of more youth and teachers continue.

Do what you can … introduce your school and community to “Connecting The Dots With The Respect Principle,” suggest they bring me into present the concept and discuss the benefits, encourage them to add the books to their school curriculum, secure a copy of the play to introduce the concept to their school and community … not just for me and my company, but for what my company can do to help minimize and even eliminate potential threats.

Know this … I do what I do so every child, regardless of what they might have or are experiencing, will learn they are valuable … to be respected … simply for being a life.

WHY? Because everyone who feels valued … respected will not have the desire to harm his or her self nor anyone else.

This is not a theory, but a logical, practical, and compassionate solution I developed because of what I have learned from my own experience, research, and studies and what has worked for me.

Watch the following video for why and how …

 

May 20, 2018

KAITLIN ANN TREPANIER

Human/Animal Rights Activist Social Scientist Founder Entrepreneur Author Artist

Connecting The Dots With The Respect Principle

©All Rights Reserved 2015