Writing, Publishing, Podcasting, Film-Making, and Directing Preparation

In preparation for rolling out the “Connecting The Dots With The Respect Principle” global initiative to transform respect from a discretionary value to a global principle, the above headline outlines a significant part of the work ahead of me.

Upcoming changes also include a WordPress email account, fees to read select blog entries, plus the means to accept funds for fundraising too.

And down the road, the time will come to bring on the management team with their unique talents and expertise to advocate, inspire, and manifest more peace and liberty for all people.

Fortunately, I am blessed with a strong drive to learn and focus, plus an usuual right/left brain aptitude that empowers me to be both creative and intuitive, plus logical and practical, and of course, with the most important factor … the drive to help all people experience the reality of being valued … respected simply for being a human life.

Thank you for following, for caring, and for sharing. Please stay tuned and be safe.

Wholeheartedly,

KAITLIN ANN TREPANIER
Specialist, Writer, Speaker, Social Entrepreneur, Founder and President
http://www.connectingthedotswiththerespectprinciple.com
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September 19, 2020

“The Emotional Intelligence Test Was So Accurate It Was Creepy”

Linked article by Rich Bellis for Fast Company on Pocket Worthy

https://getpocket.com/explore/item/this-emotional-intelligence-test-was-so-accurate-it-was-creepy?utm_source=pocket-newtab

In a world dominated by narcissism … in other words, the it’s-all-about-me mindset … and a sociopathic mindset … in other words, I-am-concerned-with-me-not-you-mindset … it is easy to understand why “Emotional Intelligence” is underdeveloped or impaired in many people in our world today.

I say many because if we look at the impact highlighted by the actual statistics based on crimes … child neglect, child sexual abuse, sexual assaults, domestic violence, human trafficking, racial, religion, and because-you-are-different attacks, plus blue and white collar crime (statistics revealing the ones that we know of, not the many we don’t), we find the proven evidence for low Emotional Intelligence that is an indicator of sociopathic narcissism and therefore of low “Respect Levels.”

As someone with an very unusual personality type who suffered greatly at the hands of people with low EI and in turn, sometimes gave back some of which I received, I personally know what having a low EI feels and looks like. Wanting to break negative patterns in me to generate different results, has meant, like it does with all change, looking at myself and then searching for the knowledge I needed to become aware of so I could see, not where I was bad or deficient, but where I was ignorant of what I needed to know to become, by my behaviour as well as my thoughts, the person I knew I initially was … very caring and concerned for others as well as for myself.

With a “Respect Level” finally above the 50% mark, I am grateful for the significant changes that has restored much of my true character before the world did a number on it. And I have to admit, I still have work to do to ramp up my EI to a level I will be satisfied with, which for me as an Intuitspecifically means reigning in my “Impulse Control.” So, the personal works goes on as does the professional work of helping others on their journeys by sharing what others and I have learned from our journeys.

Best wishes,

KAITLIN ANN TREPANIER
Specialist, Writer, Speaker, Social Entrepreneur, Founder and President
http://www.connectingthedotswiththerespectprinciple.com
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September 16, 2020

Respect … The Way Back Into Love

Upcoming book release.

KAITLIN ANN TREPANIER
Specialist, Writer, Speaker, Social Entrepreneur, Founder and President
http://www.connectingthedotswiththerespectprinciple.com
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September 12, 2020

When “Disrespect” Dominates …

When “Disrespect” dominates, acts like the 9/11 terrorist attack result.

One more reason to change the dominant “Disrespect Philosophy” to a “Respect Philosophy” by helping people to “Connect The Dots With The Respect Principle” in order to recognize, adopt support, and demonstrate the new belief that all people are valuable … entitled to respect … regardless of any other belief that devalues anyone else … because every life matters.

And, my condolences to all those who suffered on 9/11.

KAITLIN ANN TREPANIER
Specialist, Writer, Speaker, Social Entrepreneur, Founder and President
http://www.connectingthedotswiththerespectprinciple.com
© All Rights Reserved 2014-2020
September 11, 2020

DUSTED DREAMS

This is a poem I wrote when my sojourn began. What a long, arduous journey it is to reclaim one’s self after experiences and naive judgments erroneously guide us to give up our identity to please others in order to be accepted.

DUSTED DREAMS

Took you down off the high shelf,

found you buried in the attic,

rooted through the basement,

and scoured the closets too.

Found you in all kinds of places,

tucked into little nooks and crannies,

shoved aside everywhere.

Brought you all back into the open,

all the little pieces hidden away,

put them all back together,

and unlike Humpty Dumpty

put myself back together again.

Kaitlin Ann Trepanier, 1996

(Then known as Debra Ann Webber)

Specialist, Writer, Speaker, Social Entrepreneur, Founder and President
http://www.connectingthedotswiththerespectprinciple.com
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September 10, 2020

I Lost Religion and Gained Faith

I lost religion and gained faith … by studying the Bible for myself … that resulted in establishing a personal relationship with God, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit … my Board of Directors for my personal and professional life … the best decision I have made in my life.

I am sharing this because maybe this is what you need too in our world that struggles with even respecting people, let alone loving them.

KAITLIN ANN TREPANIER
Specialist, Writer, Speaker, Social Entrepreneur, Founder and President
http://www.connectingthedotswiththerespectprinciple.com
© All Rights Reserved 2014-2020
September 9, 2020

Gaslighters … More Common Than You Know So It’s Good To Know What They Do

This links to an informative guide on how to spot “Gaslighters … people with sociopathic narcissist behaviour” and what they do to exact control over others in order for them to feel okay.


In other words, this article is yet another way damaged people inflict damage on other people because it is what they know to do because of their own experience of being gaslighted also.


And yes, gaslighting behaviour can be changed, but often will not happen while he or she has continues to succeed with their efforts. Which also means, anyone being gaslighted will most likely have to leave a relationship, a friendship, workplace, or whatever, to take back one’s power and to rebuild one’s confidence.


And yes, personal experience also motivated me to share this knowledge too as I work steadily now to take back my power and restore my confidence in my abilities, along with my self-worth that many gaslighters impaired and almost destroyed.


To anyone who needs this, remember if people are making you feel bad about yourself, making you doubt yourself, get help in whatever form works best for you … because otherwise you could lose your life by wasting your life with such people or sadly like some people, you could get to the point you commit suicide, either by lack of care and carelessness for your life or by actually taking your own life.


https://www.northpointrecovery.com/blog/gaslighting-examples-effects-confront-abuse/

KAITLIN ANN TREPANIER
Specialist, Writer, Speaker, Social Entrepreneur, Founder and President
http://www.connectingthedotswiththerespectprinciple.com
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September 7, 2020

Simply Put, Connecting The Dots With The Respect Principle, Is All About …

Connecting The Dots With The Respect Principle is all about employing respect as a principle for #advocacy #awareness #education #logic #practicality #compassion #peace.

KAITLIN ANN TREPANIER
Specialist, Writer, Speaker, Social Entrepreneur, Founder and President
http://www.connectingthedotswiththerespectprinciple.com
© All Rights Reserved 2014-2020
September 2, 2020

Looking Behind the Narcissist’s Curtain

Much like the OZ wizard character in “The Wizard of Oz” movie, narcissists may appear more confident, capable, and powerful than what they really are.

“Overview. Narcissistic personality disorder — one of several types of personality disorders — is a mental condition in which people have an inflated sense of their own importance, a deep need for excessive attention and admiration, troubled relationships, and a lack of empathy for others.Nov 18, 2017”

“Narcissistic personality disorder – Symptoms and causes …
http://www.mayoclinic.org › symptoms-causes › syc-20366662”

KAITLIN ANN TREPANIER
Specialist, Writer, Speaker, Social Entrepreneur, Founder and President
http://www.connectingthedotswiththerespectprinciple.com
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September 1, 2020

To Respect Simply Means To Value

English words often have more than one meaning, which can even include contrary meanings, but when I researched the word “respect”, all definitions included the words “to value.” Since I was searching for a word, a concept that would cross all boundaries and reflect the belief every person is valuable simply for being a life, respect became a philosophy, has been adopted as principle, and now drives the global initiative because …

ctdwtrp quote block black to respect simply means to value

KAITLIN ANN TREPANIER
Specialist, Writer, Speaker, Social Entrepreneur, Founder and President
http://www.connectingthedotswiththerespectprinciple.com
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August 27, 2020