Putting the Recent St. Michael’s College Students Videod Yet Alleged Assaults/Sexual Assaults in Perspective

Forerunner and leader in the field of understanding the impact of childhood abuse, from smacks to sexual assault and other violent acts, Alice Miller, revealed the need for change in societal thinking.

Rather than blaming parents for what they naively pass on to their children because of their own experience, Alice, as do I, advocate for people to open their minds and consider, based on what psychology and sociology have revealed, that we do not have to pass onto others what we have experienced.

To do so, requires courage, boldness, respect, and love for our own wounds that need to be healed so we can change our mindsets and actions rather than inflect them on others, whether the others are children, youths, or adults. We can stop pointing fingers and instead focus on accepting the logical awareness in order for us to be compassionate for what was endured and to be vigilant in breaking the cycle.

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Read more about the unfolding drama of abuse and violence inflicted upon minors by minors.


Then, don’t just condemn the offending children, seek the available knowledge to break this cycle in our world because it is in your power to do so in your circle of influence.

For all the children we once were, the children now, and for all the children to come … thank you.


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November 22, 2018


Perspective on “RESPECT and LOVE” From World-Renowned Psychologist Alice Miller and …

“I love my children if I can respect them with all their feelings and their needs and try to fulfill those needs as best as I can. If I see them not as persons whose rights are just as sacrosanct as my own, but as objects that I have to correct, then that is not love.”

Free From Lies Discovering Your True Needs, Alice Miller, p 223

“Most parents don’t want to hurt their children; they do it automatically, by repeating that they themselves learned when they were small. We can help them to refrain from this destructive behavior by explaining to them why it is so destructive. Then they can wake up and make a choice.”

Free From Lies Discovering Your True Needs, Alice Miller, p 240

The introduction and study of Alice Miller’s body of work changed and played a big role in healing my life. Fueled by my deep compassion for all people, what I learned about respect and love from Alice Miller inspired my development of the Connecting The Dots With The Respect Principle concept, company, books, products, services, and global initiative. My compassion and respect for everyone, plus my understanding of what needs to change in our world drives me every day to keep moving forward with this body of work that will hopefully help many others as Alice helped so many too.

April 14, 2018


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