“Why We LOVE, Why We Cheat

 

Thankfully, with this knowledge and our conscious decisions to not cheat, we are empowered to overcome our biology.

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KAITLIN ANN TREPANIER

Innovator Founder Social Entrepreneur Producer Publisher Writer Artist Speaker

Connecting The Dots With The Respect Principle

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December 30, 2018

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Putting SUPERIORITY Complexes in PERSPECTIVE

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KAITLIN ANN TREPANIER

Innovator Founder Social Entrepreneur Producer Publisher Writer Artist Speaker

Connecting The Dots With The Respect Principle

Smashwords interview @  www.smashwords.com

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December 27, 2018

 

Another CRAZY IDEA … WE NEED

Crazy people don’t know their idea sounds crazy … but many great ideas do sound crazy initially … telephones … televisions … automobiles … airplanes … world-wide web … like mine, Connecting The Dots With The Respect Principle, does, but as with these listed and many others, in time respect as a global principle, rather than a discretionary value chosen by a person or a group of people, will be recognized as the most logical, practical, and compassionate means, other than love, to co-create a better world for all.

Kaitlin Ann Trepanier

CONNECTING THE DOTS WITH THE RESPECT PRINCIPLE

Founder Entrepreneur Author Artist and Speaker  

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August 28, 2018                                    

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For Better or Worse, We See People Through The Colored Lenses Of Our Beliefs

For instance, my experiences motivated me to trust no one, to assume the worst, and to leave people behind when those negative expectations were fulfilled.

Of course, with my beliefs coloring my vision of others, and myself, I attracted people with similar beliefs, who of course, did not let me down by treating me with disrespect, disregard, contempt, harm, and even betrayal … all things I carried in my heart and mind, sometimes with awareness, though often not.

I would like to tell you that all changed when I examined and changed my beliefs, but there is more truth to my old beliefs than I would like to acknowledge.

The thing is, like me for so long, many people do not know what their core beliefs are and even if they are their own, versus other people’s beliefs they adopted through conditioning, peer pressure etc. they don’t yet know the lens can be changed.

As a result, they also harbor the notion no one is trustworthy, to expect the worst from people, though they may have their own way of dealing with their fulfilled expectations.

My two new beliefs may seem at odds with each other, but in reality they complement each and even support each other.

First, based on logic, practicality, and compassion, my new personal philosophy recognizes everyone as valuable … to be respected simply for being a life. I don’t have to agree with them, like them, approve of them, or any other such thing. I live and let live, unless of course they are harming someone, which negates the option to live and let live because they are not giving the same option to those they are harming.

Secondly, driven to feel fulfilled beyond my personal philosophy alone, I returned to  believing in God, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit. Raised a Catholic, but not without a long time in between to fill in the gaps left by Catholicism teachings, my return was a slow, cautious, meandering one. Exploring other spiritual beliefs, none satisfied and kept me moving on, searching to have the gap filled.

Yet even when I accepted God, Jesus, and the Holy Spirit, with my new awareness and educational level, peace did not come right away. My head had to get wrapped around the distinctions between what I learned in my youth was not all the truth and the whole truth, came not from a person, but from the Bible itself.

I would like to say other believers drew me back to God, but overall I have discovered the many Christians I have met are struggling to believe and act as the Bible teaches, first and foremost to love unconditionally, and even to respect each other as God’s children.

However, this matters not now because one, I choose to respect all people and their right to choose so I live and let live, and two, because I am learning how to love like God, unconditionally, with grace, forgiveness, mercy, and all the things we all hunger for to fill the holes and gaps in our lives.

Whatever lens you wear, if they are not allowing you to see the world as it really is, maybe you are due for a new prescription too.

Best wishes on your journey.

With respect and love,

Kaitlin

April 25, 2018

KAITLIN ANN TREPANIER

Human/Animal Rights Activist Social Scientist Founder Entrepreneur Author Artist

Connecting The Dots With The Respect Principle

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April 25, 2018

KAITLIN ANN TREPANIER

Human/Animal Rights Activist Social Scientist Founder Entrepreneur Author Artist

Connecting The Dots With The Respect Principle

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Connecting Respect … “Mental Illness is Not …”

NO ONE is perfect because we are all human. We each have our challenges though some of our challenges are more visible than others.

I admire everyone who gets up everyday and does their best with that they believe.

And I salute those who bravely examine their beliefs, discard what no longer fits them, plus explores, discovers, and embraces new beliefs to further develop his or her unique self and potential.

PERSONALLY, my unique challenge has been, even with my many successes, has been overcoming experiences and feelings that made me feel small, insignificant, worthless, and a failure because I did not know and therefore did not respect and love myself unconditionally … but thank God, that has changed! Wishing the same for everyone!

February 4, 2018

KAITLIN ANN TREPANIER

Founder President Author Speaker Artist

Connecting The Dots With The Respect Principle

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Predictability Versus Unpredictability … A Personal and Professional Perspective

A recent reconnect with the only employer I was embarrassed to reconnect with revealed more than predicted.

During a tumultuous time of change in my life, I applied for a seasonal, part-time job to generate additional household income, while not taxing my thinking and free time as I pondered what direction my life needed to take.

For four years, three days a week I visited three of the Toronto company’s key accounts to merchandise the company’s souvenir products. My performance also encouraged management to recruit me to a staff position to support the inventory control team and to serve as the in-warehouse production line supervisor.

However, during my employment with the company, my marriage was ending and I fell in love with a co-worker, all of which many people experience, but unfortunately how I handled myself during that time for years afterwards caused me to feel profound embarrassment and shame, especially since it was the only time I had allowed my personal problems to greatly affect my work performance.

On reflection, though I was not satisfied with my performance, the company obviously was since I was employed by them for four years. But it was only with my recent correspondence with the owner of the company of forty staff members that he shared his perspective.

Of course, the dialogue started with the letter I chose to write him few months ago, apologizing for my unprofessional behavioural at times during those four years.

Though we had only had a few interactions over the course of my employment, in his response letter, he was respectful and shared his perspective forthright. What he did recall about me was my talent, yet he also mentioned he recalled me as being unpredictable, though as I had explained there was a lot of tumult in my personal life that erupted into my professional life, including the discovery of my creative and entrepreneurial drive and talent.

In other words, I was experiencing an intense journey of self-discovery in my early forties because my dreams and talents had been squashed and/or squished into the predictable boxes my talents could be shoved into for the sake of familiarity and safety.

Many years later I can now put his words in context in ways he cannot do because he does not know me now. For instance, though I have further developed the talent he recalls, I have also discovered talents I was unaware of even then. And as for my unpredictability, I have also discovered the value of my “unpredictability” including how it has allowed my other talents … creativity … innovation … entrepreneurship … to rise up, be seen, and be developed in order to support the predictable elements of me … the most important being my passion to help people in any way I can.

For him and his company, helping people meant serving in a couple of capacities I mentioned above, yet as I have always been driven to do in any job, I also am driven to discover and develop more effective, efficient, and compassionate ways to support people and their goals.

And, as a result, I realize that it is precisely my creative, innovative, and entrepreneurial unpredictability, combined with my predictability of the sound business practices I developed at a young age and the sound personal practices I have developed since my employment by his company that I now am a whole, well-rounded individual … not only with the visions and dreams of what is possible, the unpredictable, but also with the logical, practical, and predictable skills needed to transform the visions and dreams into realities … everything that makes me the innovative social entrepreneur I now am.

As I have learned regarding all matters of life, one’s perspective is always key. Significantly too, I know predictability will only generate predictable … known … results, so if we want better, more, growth, change, etc., we must step out of the world of predictable into the unpredictable. And taking that step is called living.

Thank you IW for helping me to connect more of the dots of who I was, am and have yet to be.

Sincerely,

Kaitlin

December 4, 2016

Kaitlin Ann Trepanier, founder and president of Connecting the Dots … with The Respect Principle, the company dedicated to raising Respect Levels for the benefit of all people by developing and delivering books, products, and services that entertain, educate, and inspire positive change. http://www.therespectprinciple.com ©All Rights Reserved 2016